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This is another interview for Glamour magazine. Its focus was on the very hot topic of ageism in the entertainment industry, specifically, the adult industry, where even the sites within our genre of "Porn for Women", have been accused of playing the ageism card, and not hiring people based on age or appearance. This interview was written in 2014.

3) How do you feel about the "MILF" genre? Do you think it's helpful because it provides more employment and representation for older women, or demeaning because it categorizes them into a niche? (continued)

To be honest, a lot of the women cast as MILFs can only be considered “older” by comparison to the women in their early 20s who comprise so much of the adult industry’s talent base. I’ve heard quite a few performers complain they went straight from being cast as “teens” to being MILFs, with no middle ground in between.

On the one hand, I’m not a big fan of the term MILF, but on the other, I try not to be oversensitive about the way viewers express themselves or describe their fantasies. I think you need to leave some room for people to have a sort of shorthand, an easy means of describing what they like and what they want to see, and I try not to judge people for how they express those things. For a lot of viewers, a MILF just means someone old enough to plausibly be a mother who they find attractive. In that context, I don’t think of it as an insult or a stereotype.

4) What is Sssh.com (and any other company you're aware of) doing to combat ageism in porn?

What I do to combat ageism with Sssh is to simply present performers and the characters they play as people, as individuals, without making a big a show of their age – or their body type, for that matter. I shoot content with narratives (vs sex only) and my primary marketing approach does not focus on a niche or a category. Stories are very important to me and to my movies. I figure if I prioritize the story and the characters, and within that present good, hot sex, it sends a positive message to the viewer, without having to force an underlying message.

5) Do you think that porn is more or less ageist than the larger culture?

Wow, that’s a tough call. I think most people would reflexively say porn is more ageist than the broader culture, but if you look around the way aging is presented and handled throughout society, ageism is a problem which goes well beyond porn -- and well beyond depictions in mainstream entertainment, as well. When you think about stereotypes and media trends, it’s clear our society doesn’t respect and revere older people, so much as it pushes them aside and treats them as less relevant.

Ageism is also very gendered. This is not to say that there are not couples made up of every possible age combination imaginable, but to look at media, 99% of the world is made up of 25 year old women dating 45 year old men.

6) Do you expect to have a wide viewership for your over-50 casting call project?

It’s always hard to say how much a project will resonate with the audience or how successful it will be. I do think it will be a big hit with Sssh fans and members, just based on the enormous number of requests we’ve received to cast and feature performers in this age bracket. Ultimately, that’s what is most important to me – delivering what my fans and members ask for. Their feedback, suggestions, and requests are crucial to what I do, so making them happy is always my top priority.

7) Any other thoughts on aging and porn that you have, I would love to hear!

I’m hopeful the trend of increasing diversity within the industry turns out to be a durable one and includes lots of opportunity for older performers and directors alike. To me, this is the best part of how technology has democratized porn in the internet age. We’re not limited to what a small number of companies out in L.A. want to make anymore. If someone has the desire and initiative to do so, they can pick up a camera and create porn as they want to it to be, reflecting their vision and their fantasies – all expectations, stereotypes, and conventions surrounding age, body type, and beauty be damned!

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