Stimulate Each Others Senses

One thing that makes good sex, really good sex, is you and your partners ability to excite and stimulate each other.  When your turned on and caught up in the heat of the moment, your senses are heightened. Combine that with the steamy weather outside and keeping cool becomes a fun erotic mission. Next time your looking for a scorching hot summertime foreplay session, go cool. Grab an ice cube. Tell your lover to close their eyes and suck on the ice cube for a few moments.  Kiss them, taking the ice cube to your mouth.  With both your lips, cool and wet, it’s the perfect time for some body and genital kissing, sucking and well you know!  Your whole body will be tingling with excitement. Adding new elements to your sex life, is a great way to keep things heating up.  Remember be creative, the more unexpected the action, the hotter things will be.

Turn Down the Temperature

Since the two of you can really heat things up in the bedroom, you might want to close your bedroom door and crank the air conditioning up as high as it can go. Leave your bed sheets exposed while the AC is running and you will have cold sheets and pillows to lie on while the two of you playfully seduce each other. And hey, if you get too cold from the air conditioner, you can always wrap up in each others arms to keep warm.  And while your cuddling, just think of all the pervy fun you can have. It will be irresistible.  Now that’s the start of some hot  foreplay that neither of you will be able to resist.

Try a Mint-Flavored Lubricant

Ah, the tingling sensation of mint. Better yet, how about eatable, lickable, suckable mint lube. Massage your guy with your favorite flavored lubricant. Tease him gently by kissing all around his penis, but don’t touch the target.  When he can’t take anymore,  go in for the kill. The combination of your warm mouth and the cooling sensation from the lube will set him over the edge.  It will drive him crazy.  Girls, mint lube is great for oral sex (for him), but be careful using it on you or inserting it.  Mint can be an irritant.

Slip n’ Slide

Isn’t sex in public fun?  Well, we’re going to give you some outdoor sexy foreplay ideas. Have a water park in your area?  If not don’t despair, go down to your locate store and pick up a “slip n’ slide”  So do you want the x-rated or PG17 version?  Executive decision time.  PG17 it is…Put on your sexiest bathing suit and take turns sliding down the wet, cool slide. For extra sensation, turn on a sprinkler or slide down together. Who knows where this summertime fun activity will take you?  Sound over the top silly? They say fun and laughter is an amazing aphrodisiac. So why mess with science.

Foreplay on the Road

Foreplay should never be confined to a specific room…and if your adventurous and creative, the options are limitless. How about renting a convertible and going on a long drive or even a road trip.  The summer breeze playing against your skin, the fresh air, you get the picture.  Although we are not going to endorse you giving a blowjob while your guy is driving,  for safety reasons, I am sure the two of you can come up with other ways to tease each other.  when it all gets to be much, find a secluded spot and pull over.  A private beach, park, field, your options are truly endless.  Just think outside the box. and have a steaming hot time.

Water Fights

Get ready for some hot outdoor sex!  Nothing is more fun then a water fight.  Screw the cloths, your going to be ripping them off fast enough anyway.  Remember when you were a kid, how much fun a water fight could be.  Well now is your chance to relive those days.  With or without cloths, get those hoses ready and go for it.  Both of you will be cooled off and wet in no time at all.  Ever have sex up against a house?

Vacation Sex

Are you and your partner going on vacation this summer? How fun!  This is the perfect time to really push on your boundaries and be very naughty. How about your hotel room balcony.  A sail boat, you know the kind, the little two setter Sail Fish or my personal favorite, the pool or hot tub late at night. Sometimes a change of scenery is all you need to rekindle the flame and get hot, wild and kinky!

Summertime is about relaxing and enjoying yourself. Take that relaxation into the bedroom and you’ll spend the rest of the year counting down the days till the start of the summer season. There is nothing like summertime foreplay to get your sexual juices flowing and keep your relationship smoking hot.  Satisfy and be satisfied this summer!

Every relationship is unique especially when it comes to the level of romance that the couple enjoys. This does not mean that you cannot find ways to add romance to your relationship in areas where you feel that it is lacking. If your relationship has lost some of its luster and you are looking to restore the romance, then the following tips will help you get things going again. As every relationship is unique, it is essential for you to find the ways that work best for you rather than necessarily implementing all of them.

Make Ordinary Routines Special

How do you normally wake up in the morning or go to bed at night? Are there certain routines in your relationship that you can alter in order to make them more special? For example, if you both get up in the morning at the same time and have some time before work, consider making a special breakfast and spending time in the morning sharing coffee and the newspaper. If you both arrive home at the same time at night, consider setting time aside to talk about your day while having a glass of wine together. Take turns giving foot rubs or shoulder rubs while watching a favorite television show.

Find New Ways to Say I Love You

Show your love in simple ways. Make heart shaped pancakes in the morning for breakfast, or write a little love note on his or her napkin with coffee in the morning. Create a romantic playlist and play some music when your partner gets home from work, then offer them a shoulder massage while the music plays. Find ways to show them that you are paying attention to them. Pick up a favorite food from the grocer on your way home from work, or cook a favorite meal on a day when they do not feel well. Little ways to say I love you can really add up and make a difference in your relationship.

Write a Love Letter

There are a wide variety of reasons to write a love letter or note and many different ways that you can do it. Buy some pretty paper and write out a long love letter detailing what makes you happy about the relationship. Another option is simply to scrawl something simple and straight forward onto a smaller note and include it with a cute gift. Tuck a little note of encouragement or love into a shirt pocket. If your partner is going away on a trip for business, you might consider tucking love notes into the pockets of his clothing so that he has something of yours to read every day while he is away. There are many different ways to show your love in written form, and you can get really creative with the delivery as well.

Find Activities to do Together

Find out what shared hobbies you have, and then take that a step further by creating ways to share them together. If you both enjoy sightseeing or fitness, consider buying bicycles and going on rides together. If you have a shared passion, then strive to create situations where you can share that passion together, because this is a great way to build romance in your relationship while enjoying your own self as well. There are many ways to do activities in pairs, so find some things that you are both interested in and then bring those interests to life with shared activities.

Find Simple Acts to Surprise Your Partner.

Simple acts do not have to take a lot of time or money, but they can go far in showing your partner that you love them. For example, if your partner is taking a shower, surprise them with a fluffy and warm towel straight out of the dryer. If your partner is having a bad day at work, meet them in the parking lot of their workplace and take them out to dinner. Small, simple acts that show your partner that you are thinking of them and watching out for them are a great way to increase the romance in your relationship to new levels.

There are a myriad of ways to increase the level of romance in your relationship. The key is simply to decide which techniques are going to work best for you and your partner and then implement them. Many of these things can work on an ongoing basis as they are small and can involve multiple steps. Simply take time or make time to show your partner that you love them on a daily basis and you will have no problems keeping the romance alive and well in your relationship.

About Aria

Aria is a freelance writer whose personal experiences make her a good candidate for declaring love, relationship and sex advice.  She also writes for Yahoo!”s Dating and Relationships channel. .

The words ‘feminist’ and ‘porn’ have a lot in common: they both carry a lot of baggage, evoke a lot of strong feelings, and can be interpreted in many different ways by many different people. Consequently, people are often hesitant to identify with these terms or label things with them. This is in part why a moniker like ‘feminist porn’ can be so jarring, a seeming contradiction. But as editors of The Feminist Porn Book: The Politics of Producing Pleasure (Feminist Press 2013), Tristan Taormino, Celine Parreñas Shimizu, Constance Penley, and Mireille Miller-Young explain, there is a long tradition and thriving community in which these two words are not only not contradictory, but in fact make a perfect political combo.

Sitting in the halls of the University of Toronto, I listen to director Tristan Taormino describe feminist porn as ‘organic and fair-trade’. Much like the fair-trade food movement, she explains, feminist porn targets the conscientious consumer, the consumer that wants to know they are buying products from companies that respect people’s labour conditions. Treating actors fairly, paying good wages, and creating a healthy, respectful working environment are all key components of what makes a production ‘feminist’. Like any marketplace, sexual markets have the potential to be socially progressive and engender social change, writes contributor Lynn Comella (92). Feminist porn differs from mainstream porn by taking chances and placing ethics before (or at least alongside) profits. This works counter to the formulas of mainstream porn, which, writes Mireille Miller-Young, ‘replicates exactly what sells and innovates only when other things sell better’ (112). Having worked on a number of Sssh’s movie sets, I can attest to the fact that while the word ‘feminist’ may not appear on the website, this fair-trade ethic is strongly adhered to in the production of our movies.

Feminist porn is also about rewriting and exploding the gender and sex codes that are taken for granted in the bulk of mainstream porn. It counters ideas such as the passive woman who, as performer Dylan Ryan describes in her article, seems to have sex done to her rather than something she is engaged in as an active participant (122). Other tropes such as the ‘meat shot’ or the ‘money shot’ may be played with or discarded; a wider variety of bodies, ages and races may be depicted; and more ‘sensual’ sex may be part of the picture. That said one of the key misconceptions about feminist porn is that it essentializes what ‘women want’ based on outdated ideas of men as aggressive and visual, women as gentle and sensual. Feminist porn does not seek to imply that all women want the same thing, nor that only women have an interest in watching feminist porn. There is no quest, as Jane Ward’s contribution argues, for the holy grail of ‘authentic’ female sexuality inasmuch as there are many ‘sexualities’, plural, to be enjoyed, all of which are mediated by culture and none of which are exemplary of some ‘base’ or ‘natural’ sexuality (133). All kinds of people want to see all kinds of sexual imagery. As the editors write, ‘feminist porn does not shy away from the darker shades of women’s fantasies. It creates a space for realizing the contradictory ways in which our fantasies do not always line up with our politics or ideas of who we think we are’ (15). If there is one essentialist motivation, it is to address the porn consumer as not always a white man, to not presume the euro-centric male gaze. How that manifests, of course, is then up for grabs by the myriad ‘female gazes’ we can conjure.

Basics of the anti-porn movement gleaned from this book are the idea that a) porn is a ‘monolithic medium and industry’ and therefore we can make ‘sweeping generalizations about its production, its workers, its consumers, and its effects on society’ (9); b) that men’s sexuality is dangerous, uncivilized, and needs to be ‘reigned in’ to protect women from it (53); and c) that people who believe porn can be a source of joyful and equitable labour or expression are suffering a false consciousness, deceiving themselves, and that they fail to critically address porn, saying all porn is always empowering (9). Anti-porn feminists see porn as a commodification of rape; this view seems to inherently consider sex as demeaning to women, as if women do not seek sexual expression and satisfaction, or that they cannot do so safely in a world still marked by racism, misogyny, patriarchy, and classism. But we pro-porn feminists do not believe sex is inherently demeaning or objectifying, that’s why we invite women to explore their desires and boundaries in a safe space like Sssh.com. A key understanding of feminist porn is that sexual freedom, the right to enjoy and express sexuality, is intimately linked to our overall sense of freedom and wellbeing in the world. In this sense, porn is a political platform.

But no one is claiming that porn is never problematic. It may be your negative encounters with porn that brought you to Sssh.com in the first place. In expanding on precisely what political stance is invoked by feminist porn, the editors write that:

feminist porn uses sexually explicit imagery to contest and complicate dominant representations of gender, sexuality, race, ethnicity, class, ability, age, body type, and other identity markers. It explores concepts of desire, agency, power, beauty, and pleasure at their most confounding and difficult, including pleasure within and across inequality, in the face of injustice, and against the limits of gender hierarchy and both heteronormativity and homonormativity. It seeks to unsettle conventional definitions of sex, and expand the language of sex as an erotic activity, an expression of identity, a power exchange, a cultural commodity, and even a new politics […] Ultimately, feminist porn considers sexual representation – and its production – a site for resistance, intervention, and change. [9-10]

All this AND you get to jerk off with a clean conscience!

If all this is more political philosophy than you care to think about when watching a dirty movie, consider it simply as an issue of media representation. Porn is a form of entertainment, and like TV, movies, the Internet, radio, performances, theatre, or any spectacle, what happens on and behind the screen or stage has concrete ramifications on the presumptions people make about others, and on how folks come to understand the world.

The Feminist Porn Book addresses one element that I feel very strongly: the collaboration of academics with porn producers and actors themselves. The edict ‘nothing about us without us’ demands that those who are removed from a phenomenon such as porn production must consult with and integrate the voices of those who are actually touched by the industry in formulating their theories. This volume seamlessly brings together porn studies academics (yes, it is a field, with its own peer-reviewed journals, university programs, conferences, and specialists) with porn performers, directors, and webmasters. Too often only academic voices get heard, or performers are only involved provided their voices are ‘filtered up’ through the refined pen of the scholar. Of course, some academics are also performers (such as myself), but because of stigma we often have to balance our desire to be ‘out’ with our desire to keep a job without harassment.

One of the reasons I think this collaboration is so important is that it encourages non-industry porn consumers to act in solidarity with the hard working porn stars labouring to get them off. A key concern, as some scholars have stated, is that women can be hesitant to consume porn because they worry that it ‘objectifies’ actresses, or that women in porn are treated poorly. I understand this concern, but want to point out that porn is remarkably similar to any other industry: there are companies that treat workers well and pay fair wages, and other that do less than a stellar job at it. Be confident that you have made the right step by joining an equitable and fair website! Give you and your credit card a little pat on the back.

How exactly is a porn performer, an agential human being, objectified? While some argue that objectification is endemic to certain industries (like porn and fashion) I think it depends on the viewer more than the industry itself. If we consume a product without respecting the labourers that produce it, we are the ones guilty of objectifying the people involved. Creating a sex-positive community where we can enjoy our kinks in mutually enriching ways means we must appreciate the contributions of those creating the product. The power to objectify is largely in the eye of the beholder; so check yourself and those around you if they start to imply that the women featured in porn are ‘sluts’ or ‘whores’ or that they must be drug-addicted, irresponsible, or any other number of the stereotypes that get pinned on the backs of sex workers. Reading the words of porn performers themselves is a responsible and easy to way to humanize and respect those we may not encounter in our day-to-day lives (although I assure you, you’ve stood in the grocery line next to a sex worker before, you just might not have known it).

If you are still struggling with the idea that porn can be feminist, I urge you to check out this book. One of its finer points is that it, as far as I’ve read, is the first work to bring us up to speed on the feminist porn movement since the introduction of the Internet and into the 2000s. It also gives excellent historical context for those unfamiliar with or wanting to know more about the ‘Golden Age’ of porn in the 70s (when big budget productions first developed and screened) as well as the conflicted debates in the 80s (known as the ‘porn wars’ or sex wars’). These debates continue to mark the ways that we often conflate ‘feminism’ with ‘anti-sex’ or ‘anti-porn’, and I would argue, are in large part responsible for the decreasing willingness for people to identify as feminists. If you have ever had any hesitations or ambivalence about watching pornography, this book, which moves from more theoretical arguments to testimonials and is varied in its linguistic accessibility and style, is a fantastic historical critique of how porn and sex have disrupted and been disrupted by feminist movements. It offers a number of entry points to understanding the potential for porn making and porn consumption to subvert the potentially negative aspects of the industry and of our sexual culture more broadly. It normalizes the industry in ways that can make porn seem less foreign, distant, and impenetrable (no pun intended) and more like any other form of media. A focus on critical media literacy and ethical consumption put the power into the hands of the viewer. Feminist porn is not an obscure and confusing topic, it is as simple as buying fair-trade coffee and drinking it from your eco-friendly travel mug.

Copyright © 2013 Ava Mir-Ausziehen • All International Rights Reserved You may not distribute or reprint this article, in whole or in part, without express permission from Sssh.Com

My column today is about the sexiest guys I know.

Now, I know right now some of you are pulling up the sleeve of your t-shirt, kissing your bulging bicep and thinking, “She’s about to talk about men like me.”

Sorry, but nope.

To some women the sexy man is not the buff, athletic guy with the winning smile. It’s the fellow you’d least expect – the Geek, the Nerd – that average, slightly awkward but well-read guy who is familiar with each incarnation of Doctor Who, can rattle off the superpower and weakness of every Marvel superhero and knows exactly what you mean if you tell him The Cake is a Lie.

For more and more women, brainy is the new sexy.

Oh, you can laugh all you want. But while you’re making fun of grown men hunched over the table playing Dungeons and Dragons in the back room of a comic book store, your woman may be eyeing that IT guy at work and fantasizing about getting a little of his hard drive.

For some women, when we say size matters, we’re talking about the brain, and if your woman is a sapiosexual, your muscles are no match for intelligence that can deal fifty damage to her fidelity.

Sorry.

A few weekends ago, I went with my best guy friend to a Renaissance Festival. Prior to the event, another of my friends joked about this being the lamest thing ever. I set him straight.

“RennFaires are incredibly sexy,” I told him. “The whole place is one big nerdgasm. If you can’t get laid at a RennFaire, then you might as well just kill yourself.”

I don’t think he believed me, but that’s only because he’s never been to a RennFaire, where women in tight bodices are ready to fall on the sword of any guy with enough imagination to strap on a suit of armor and show up.

Geeks love roleplaying, and if you think it’s weird that your girlfriend wants to dress up as Catwoman, or even as an actual cat, as part of a sex game – be warned. Out there is some nerd who will be happy to have her increase his hit points.

Geeks are competitive. They’re not satisfied until the quest has been completed. They start with foreplay and just keep leveling up until the Orgasm. Geeks have a lot of imagination and gamer geeks, especially, have loads experience pushing the right buttons. For the latter, it’s not Game Over until she’s hotter that the fires of Mordor and screaming like Cthulhu.

And here’s the best part. Even when sex-loving Geeks aren’t having sex with actual people, they are honing their mad skills in the virtual realm. You haven’t partied until you’ve been to the BDSM sex club in Saints Row, or the brothel in Witcher II.

And even in games where the brothels are relatively tame, gamers have made mods (short for modification) to sex things up:

It’s not like this is new. Gaming has always been full of eager females, and they aren’t all like Princess Peach who stands around waiting to get saved. Miss Pacman has always been a game slut; nobody swallowed like she did.

So Beware the Nerds, guys, and discount their power at your own risk. If you’re just relying on muscle to keep her, you might want to start building up that brain. Or else it could be Game Over for you.

Copyright © 2013 Fiona Wilde • All International Rights Reserved You may not distribute or reprint this article, in whole or in part, without express permission from Sssh.Com

Do women like that still exist?

It’s as if she had no idea how beautiful she truly was. Every man in the room had to be blind, they obviously could not see beyond her thick rimmed glasses or the frumpy yellow dress that she wore, if they even looked at her at all. He wasn’t like the other men there…he saw her when she thought she couldn’t be seen. He saw the curl of her soft lips as they reacted to a song she liked, the gentle way she ran her fingers through her auburn curls, and the look of satisfaction on her face with every sip of wine she took.

I’d want to see that look every day.

Donald decided to walk over to her. If I don’t try, I’ll regret it forever he thought to himself. He couldn’t help but smile as he scooped up his drink and walked across the room toward the object of his desire. The thin beige shirt he wore complemented his dark skin and his long and neat dreads fell loosely down his back. The polo shirt fit him perfectly and almost looked as though it were tailor made for him, accenting the lines of his muscles. He was a man who took pride in his appearance. A freshly groomed beard accentuated his chiseled jaw and his dark chocolate eyes didn’t miss a thing, especially her.

Donald was a good-looking man that turned the heads of nearly every woman at the party. Single girls, ones that were draped over their own dates, and even ones with rings on their left hands all stole a glance at the man making his way across the bar. And they were shocked to see the woman he was seemingly moving towards.

“Her?”

“No way!”

“I don’t believe this!”

These were the gasps and remarks coming from the women at one particular table.

“What is that beautiful black man doing walking up to that silly looking white girl?”

“There are plenty of black women out tonight who could do wonders with a fine specimen like that.”

“Oh, Sheila, you would do anything to be one of those women, wouldn’t you!”

“Oh, Michelle…Michelle! If I were free to sample that specimen! Oh Lord! I would have to quit my job and stay at home because I would NOT want to spend a single second away from an ass as fine as that!”

“Sheila!” exclaimed another friend sitting at the table.

“You wouldn’t be able to handle a man like that, darling! Now, if I were able to get my hands on him…mmm…he’s man enough for me!”

“But why does it look like he’s going to talk to that pathetic waif sitting in the corner. She really does look pathetic.”

“What the hell is that woman wearing?”

“I don’t know, but I do know that dress belongs in the bin!”

The barrage of words continued, unbeknown to the woman sitting at a table all by herself sipping on some white wine.

I have no idea what I’m doing here Marie thought to herself. She couldn’t help but recall how she’ gotten herself into this in the first place. She had agreed to come to the party because her sister was going out with the best friend of the guy whose birthday it was.

“Come on Marie!” her little sister had coaxed the previous day.

“It will be fun! You never go out! I mean, it’s a Friday night tonight and you’re snuggling up in front of the TV getting ready to watch that God awful show!”

“Hey!” Marie had protested. “The Walking Dead is not an awful show! I relate to the characters on it. It’s also a story about love and….”

“You relate to the dead, frothing at the mouth, zombies?” she exclaimed.

“Oh my God! Will you leave me alone and let me to watch this if I say yes to the stupid party?”

“Maybe.”

“Yes! Now go!”

Why, Marie? she asked herself as she ran her hand into her wild mop of curls. She glanced around at the people in the room and everyone seemed to be having such a good time and it made her wonder why she came.

Suddenly, her eyes fell on a man who appeared to be making his way towards her. Marie’s hands began to sweat and her heart thumped quickly as nervousness set in. She subtly glanced around to see whether he was in fact making his way to her. But, with one look around, she realized there was no mistake. She was along in her area of the room, and this beautiful ebony god was coming to her.

Brace yourself Marie, he’s a sexy man…Oh my God he’s so sexy! You can do this, you can do this. He’s probably just wondering where the bathroom is.

“Hi there,” he greeted with a smile and showed off his perfect set of white teeth. They contrasted beautifully with his chocolaty complexion.

Oh, my God. He’s talking to me…I can’t do this

“Um…hello,” Marie replied shyly. She could already feel her cheeks filling with blood.

“I’d ask if you were alone, but that wouldn’t be right.”

“Why is that?”

“Because I already know that you are alone.”

“Oh, um, actually, I’m here with…”

“I know, I asked Jerry about you. Your Jenny’s sister.”

He asked about me?

“Yes, as a matter of fact, I am.” She paused to tuck a curl behind her ear and it was all Donald could do to not reach out and touch it.

“What’s your name?”

“Marie.”

“Can I join you, Marie?”

She couldn’t muster an answer but, instead, just gave a simple nod and scooted over so he could sit next to her. The feeling of being so close to a perfect creature such as him was enough to unnerve her.

He smiled and revealed a deep dimple in each cheek. She wanted to touch them, brush her lips across their indent and feel the soft surface of his skin on her mouth.

What am I thinking!

She felt a sensation begin to stir between her legs. It was a familiar feeling, one she often succumbed to in the privacy of her own home. A feeling that drove Marie crazy, made her say and do things she could never explain.

“Do you want to know my name?” the beautiful man asked.

Marie shook her head to erase the naughty thoughts running through it. “Oh yes! I’m sorry, I didn’t mean to be rude. I was just…lost in thought.”

“I’m Donald. It’s nice to meet you.”

Donald shook Marie’s hand and then pulled her toward him as he leaned close to her face. All he wanted was to place an innocent kiss on her delicate white cheek, but Marie nervously jerked and their lips found each other.

“Oh! I’m sorry,” She shrieked and hid her flushed face behind her hands. She felt like crawling under the table.

Donald gently pulled her hands away and gave her a smile as his eyes moved to her lips. “You apologize too much. You have nothing to be sorry for.” Donald then moved in once more and touched his large lips to her jaw, placing light kisses that left warm sensations running through her body.

Maria clutched on to the sides of her chair as he continued to trail his lips around her mouth and chin. It was a strange feeling, letting this beautiful stranger touch her so intimately only moments after meeting. She could feel the shocking eyes of jealous onlookers burning holes into her head. It only fueled her further and she moved her hand to caress Donald’s leg.

“You smell real good, Marie. You can tell me to stop if I’m making you uncomfortable,” he whispered in her ear. The light wisp of his breath tickled her ear and sent another cavalry of sensual bliss throughout her body.

“Oh, no!” she replied with a giggle.

She liked how blatantly forward he was. It took some of the pressure off of her. And somehow she wasn’t worried about what she should say or do next as she let him kiss her face and neck, rub her trembling thigh, and whisper in her ear.

He seemed to sense her submission as he moved his hand further up her thigh. She stiffened as he began to gather up the material of her dress in the palm of his hand so that her legs were fully exposed to him. Since she was sitting in an area where she was facing the crowd of people, she was behind the table, which made it difficult for anyone to see what was going on. To the curious eye it just looked as if he was leaning in to kiss her. His hand felt good on her naked skin as he moved up and down her thigh feeling her body start to move seductively. He lightly trailed his lips down the nape of her neck and felt her sharp intake of breath.

When she felt like she couldn’t take it anymore, Marie stopped and whispered into Donald’s ear.

“Do you want to go somewhere?”

He looked up at her in surprise because he definitely did not expect her to be so forward. Donald was looking forward to this. There was something about her that was intriguing and drew him to her. He wanted to please her, maybe even teach her a thing or two.

“I can’t leave the party yet, but I know somewhere we can go.” She pointed to an area behind the massive stage where the DJ was playing his music. He grabbed her hand in his and led her through the crowd on the dance floor where people were pressed up against each other, gyrating and moving to the tunes of the sexy songs booming through the speakers. When she started getting stuck between some of the couples because of the sheer number of them, he stopped and guided her in front of him as he pressed up against her back moving down to end of the dance floor and behind the large stage. Marie started to feel his dick harden as he brushed up against her. When they finally got to the back of the stage, the curtains were dropped and they were separated from the rest of the wedding party. He pushed her against a spare table that had been propped up against a wall and expertly moved the train of her dress to one side, revealing her slender thighs and her bright blue thong.

“A thong” he exclaimed. “I wasn’t expecting that.

He maintained eye contact with her as he slid his index finger between her thighs and moved her thong to the side, exposing her moist vagina.

“Am I moving to fast?”

She smiled and shook her head.

He pushed his middle finger inside of her pussy and was taken aback with how wet she was.

“Wow, you really want this don’t you?”

“I do.”

As he fingered her vagina and played with her clit, he bent over her and grabbed her by the neck with his other hand. Pulling her up towards him he kissed her passionately as he forced his tongue into her mouth.

“OH,” Marie moaned as she welcomed the invasion.

He tore away from her mouth and grabbed her by the waist, pulling her towards the edge of the table. As he watched her remove and kick off her underwear, he pulled down the zipper of his immaculately tailored slacks and frantically removed his underwear. His hard dick sprung to freedom and Marie gasped at the sight of the giant black girth. She wanted this so bad that she spread her legs wide and smiled at him.

“Do it to me, fuck me hard.”

He smiled back at her and, without another word, thrust his dick into her welcoming wet pussy.

“Ahh, oh fuck, yes!” She threw her head back in ecstasy.

Marie wrapped her legs around his waist and moved with him as he thrust his hips back and forth, in and out of her.

“Damn, you feel good baby,” he whispered to her as the music blasted in the background and her flushed face said that she wanted more. Just as he was about to flip her over, she pushed him away and jumped off of the table. Marie moved in front of him and violently pushed him towards the table, with his back resting against it. Before he knew what was going on, she was on her knees and his rock hard dick was in her mouth. He grabbed hold of her auburn hair and moaned with pleasure as her talented tongue moved up and down his member. It was almost a frantic movement while she was interjecting it with soft and gently kisses. When Marie really began to suck him, she opened her mouth wide and Donald saw the length of his dick disappear into the back of her throat.

“Holy shit, fuck, yes. Take it, baby. Take the whole thing,” he cried out in ecstasy.

She sucked him like he had never been sucked before and seemed to know exactly what to do and how to do it to make him feel like he was about to explode all over her face. When he thought he couldn’t take it anymore, she released his dick from her mouth and gently began to play with him with her hands. As she slowly pulled his foreskin back, she licked the exposed tip of his dick. She looked up at Donald and saw the surprised look on his face as she continued to lick him, maintaining eye contact with him the whole time.

“How…” He couldn’t even finish his sentence because before he knew it she had gotten back on her feet with her back facing him and her dress hiked up to her waist exposing her legs and her ass. She moved back into him until she felt his dick and then bent over and shoved it into her vagina. She grabbed hold of another solid table that was close by as he passionately and frantically pounded in and out of her.

The people were enjoying the music as the DJ started playing some of their favorite tunes. The group of jealous women could be heard from all over the party.

“They have been in there for almost an hour.”

“Wow, I’d be happy if Dave would go for five minutes without falling asleep on me.”
 “How much do you want to bet she’s the first one to come out looking flustered from the good sexing she got from that beast?”
 “I’d bet good money to see her face, poor thing probably doesn’t know what hit her.

As the women continued their chatter, their gaze suddenly fell on a figure emerging from behind the curtains.

Nothing could have prepared them to see Donald, emerging first, with his dreads in complete mayhem, his shirt out of his pants and a priceless expression that said this was probably one of the best he’d ever had.

The women stared at each other in disbelief as a smug looking Marie emerged from behind him, completely composed and holding his hand.

As the couple past by their table, Marie gave them a look of triumph and a sly wink.

“Close your mouths ladies, we’re off for round two.”

Copyright © 2013 Jennifer Shires • All International Rights Reserved You may not distribute or reprint this article, in whole or in part, without express permission from Sssh.Com

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